New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Always Work, But This Does

This inspiring alternative to resolutions gets results

Here’s an inspiring alternative to New Year’s resolutions that we’ve been getting great results from year after year. If the word “resolutions” makes you think of struggle and obligation, but you still want a fresh start in the new year…

…take the time to do this exercise, ditch your mindset of resolutions, and see the results that follow. Here’s to your best year yet!

1. Decide on a Theme for the New Year

Your theme is your focus for the year. It can be anything from business growth to personal rejuvenation to smart financial decision-making to being known for a special talent that you want to demonstrate or that you’d like to acquire.

Themes sound like this: “This is the year of… “ or “This is the year for…” You can also use a more personalized statement, such as: “This is my year for…” Here are a few examples: This is my year for “…going where I’ve never gone before.” “…being deliberate.” “…being smart about money.” “…adding joy to my everyday life.” “…taking center stage.” “…family and fun.” “…getting my life in order.” “…making a difference in my community.” “…moving up in my career.” “…taking the stress out of life.” 

Test out several themes before you decide. Then commit to one, or possibly two if one is personal and one is professional. Your mental energy is best directed when you keep it simple.

2. Craft Your Intentions

Intentions are your aims for the year and the realization of one or more visions of the future that you have for yourself. They are both aspirational and inspirational — aspirational in that they’re clear statements of what you’re moving toward, and inspirational in that when you read them your energy level raises significantly.

Ask yourself the question, “What do I intend for myself this year?” This is akin to the more familiar, “What are my goals?” I recommend using the word intentions rather than goals because for many the word goals can imply struggle. Keep in mind that there should be an ease associated with your actions, and not the feeling of struggle as you claw your way to where you’re headed, which is often the feeling associated with “achieving” goals.

Choose no more than 3 to 4 intentions for the year. As you create them, you can start with the statement, “In 2018 I’ll have….” and write in the result you’re intending for yourself. Here are a few sample intentions: In 2018 I will have “…reached my income goal.” “…launched my new business venture.” “…gotten the promotion I’m after.” “…taken the career leap I’ve been thinking about.”

It might seem like one or more of your intentions isn’t directly related to your theme. For example, if your theme for the year is “adding joy to my everyday life,” and one of your intentions is “I reach my income goal,” the connection may not be apparent. But if in the past you’ve worked day and night to achieve an income level, leaving everyone and everything that matters to you in 2nd, 3rd or 4th place and joyless as a result, then this year, as you strive to reach your income goal, you could approach it with the intention of enjoying every aspect of it vs. having it bog you down. When you approach it this way, that would be adding joy to your everyday life – consistent with your theme.

3. Write Your Theme and Intentions Down and Read Them Regularly

Write your theme and intentions down and read them regularly. Post them where you can see them often, tell people, and then watch how fast you take directed action to make them happen.

Join Us in January at the 18th Annual Intentions Event

This proven process outlined above comes from the Annual Intentions Event we’ve been hosting in the San Francisco Bay Area and Silicon Valley for 18 years.

If you are finding that now more than ever it is vital for you to be connected to community, connected to your core self, and to live more of each day with your actions tied to what’s most meaningful to you, join us on Saturday, January 27, 2018 at the Sheraton Palo Alto for the 18th Annual Intentions Event.

This one-day retreat is a day devoted to you. You’ll be guided in a proven process to create your vision, theme and intentions for 2018 as well as in individual activities and small group discussions that tap your natural ability to surface your most meaningful desires. You’ll make meaningful connections with fellow program participants and gain valuable allies to support you going forward. You’ll leave uplifted and motivated, with your vision, theme and intentions outlined, and your clear next steps in place.

LeaderXpress managing partner Lisa Duerre will be leading the event, maintaining the process that LeaderXpress founder Denise Brouillette refined, and adding components that help you get clear on your core desired feelings as the foundation for your theme and intentions.

You have important things you want to do and an exciting future to step into. We can’t wait to spend the day with you in January. Learn more.

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